We used to think that casual sex is the top medicine against loneliness, when a person is too busy or too broke at the moment for having a stable partner. But is it really so and what do other singles say?
“For me, hookups dating are not always the best solution, it’s all very individual. I guess the girl’s emotions during and after the hookup greatly depend on the guy’s personality and his attitude towards her.
When someone is rude or too distant with me, I am certainly not getting any relief from my current loneliness. But when a person is really respectful and determined to satisfy me, I feel much better”.
“As a young attractive guy, I hookup frequently. It does help me to have fun and entertain myself throughout the evening or weekends. It improves my mood regardless of the girl’s quality and behavior.
Any single man would agree with me that one-night-stands are still better than staying alone. I do not like inviting escorts or the bar girls either, so nice friendly hookups feel just perfect to me”.
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Joining a forum to meet women
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One of the best ways to meet women online is through discussion boards.
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Most dating forums feature community forums where members share a common interest and can communicate with one another.
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This opens up the possibilities of a wider pool of women you can date, and can be extremely useful for meeting a woman.
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You can also ask for a female friend’s assistance by joining a forum related to your interests.
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You can then approach her and start a conversation.
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In addition to forums, you can also join groups or message boards to meet women.
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Photography and writing groups can help you meet women in your field.
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Some women may be more difficult to find if they’re in a niche, but you can usually find them in online forums.
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If you find a woman you like, you should follow up with her.
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If she responds positively to your approach, you will be more likely to catch her attention.